Friday, April 7, 2017

Cleaning for Passover: Don't be a fanatic!

Rebbe Nachman of Breslov, the great-grandson of the Baal Shem Tov, once got so caught up in an obsession about getting rid of chometz (leavening) before Passover that it almost drove him crazy.  During Passover, not only is it forbidden to eat chometz, it is forbidden to own it or derive any benefit from it at all.  So he started worrying about whether or not there would be chometz in the water used during the festival.  What if someone had dropped a piece of bread down the well?  That could taint the whole water supply.  Even the tiniest bit of chometz would render the water unusable for the whole eight days of the festival.

After much deliberation and minute examination of every possible halachic detail, Rebbe Nachman finally came to the conclusion that the only way to be absolutely, positively sure there was no chometz in the water would be to camp out next to a spring in the woods where the water bubbled up fresh and uncontaminated.  The problem was, the only such spring was a long way from his home.  If he went there, then he would be away from his family, his friends, his disciples, and the whole Jewish community.  Was that any way to celebrate a festival?

In the end, Rebbe Nachman decided that such ultra-strictness was unnecessary, even on Passover.  Being overly rigid killed the joy and led to depression.  Don’t be a fanatic, he taught, and do not worry yourself sick with unnecessary restrictions. “The Torah was given to human beings, not the ministering angels.”

That’s good advice.  And lest you think this obsession with “the letter of the law” is limited to Orthodox Jews, let me assure you that it occurs among secular people also.  Rebbe Nachman’s lesson came to mind a while back when I received an email about a vegan woman who had decided to take her practice to the ultimate ethical vegan level and refuse to eat anywhere meat, fish, eggs, or dairy were being served.  Basically, this meant hanging out only with other vegans in vegan restaurants, vegan homes, or at vegan events.

This ultra-strictness also resulted in her walking out on a reunion of family and friends that she had really been looking forward to, because they were serving meat. It was not enough that the organizers were willing to provide her with a vegan meal. Unless everyone there refused meat, the entire event was, to mix cultural metaphors, not kosher.

Many people in the vegetarian community probably lauded her utmost devotion to the cause. But if I were to do that, it would mean never eating with anyone but my wife.  We are vegetarians (not vegans) and we live in a rural where most of my family, neighbors and associates are not vegetarians, let alone vegans.  If I followed that woman's advice to the letter, I would end up in an isolated social bubble, not unlike what would have happened if Rebbe Nachman had decided to camp out next to the spring in the forest during Passover.

It was this kind of fanaticism that Rebbe Nachman warned against.  Yes, we must clean house, search out all leaven and remove it, change the kitchen utensils over to the Passover set, etc.  But don't drive yourself insane doing it.  Don't make it a burden that kills the joy of the holiday.

This is why we have the bitul chametz procedure for declaring any leaven we might have missed to be null and void.  This is not a mere legality.  The rabbis who enacted this rule long ago were aware of the human tendency to obsess over things. There is always the possibility that we missed a bread crust the kids dropped somewhere.  Or maybe a guest you invited for the Seder isn't as thorough as you are, and dropped some crumbs from his pocket on the living room rug.  Or a mouse stored grain in the walls of your house... A person can go on and on about this kind of worry.

However, if we have done due diligence to remove all the leaven we know about, then renounced all ownership of what we might have missed, then dayenu, enough. Time to move on and celebrate!


Tuesday, April 4, 2017

Book Review: "The 99 Names of God" by Daniel Thomas Dyer

Daniel Dyer, author and illustrator of this beautiful children's book, has created a wonderful set of lessons for connecting with God's presence in the world around us.  Although The 99 Names is intended for Muslim children, it's really a treasure for all ages and faiths. In fact, it could be used as a basic primer on spirituality, and would be a fine addition to any religious library. I defy anyone to read this book and not come away with a deeper appreciation of God's presence in the universe.

In a time when there is so much misinformation (and hostility) about Islam in the Western world, this book goes a long way toward opening a window on what true Islam is really like. If there's one thing Jews and Muslims have in common, it's the plethora of hostile websites claiming to "unmask" us by taking quotes out of context and compiling lists of every negative thing ever said by any of us anywhere.  For years it has been an uphill climb for me to convince non-Jewish readers that we Jews even have any spirituality. Recent dialogues with Muslim teachers have shown me that they, too, have this same struggle. Hence my delight in finding this very accessible book.

A sunset reminds us of God/Allah
as The Majestic One
The author begins by explaining that Allah is simply the Arabic word for God. In Arabic-speaking countries, non-Muslims -- including Christian priests -- also call God "Allah."  This is an important point, since many Christians in America assume that Allah is a separate deity from the Creator in Genesis. I have more than once been told that Muslims worship Allah, not God, which is as absurd as saying that Germans worship Gott and the French worship Dieu as separate deities. In fact, "Allah" comes from the same Semitic root as "Elohim," the name of God used in the first chapter of Genesis.

God/Allah is the Giver of Life 
Here again, Muslims and Jews have something in common, namely, the distortion of our God-language in the American public mind.  Non-Jews tends to think of the "Jewish God" as an "angry Jehovah" (which, by the way, is not how YHVH is pronounced) and some even go so far as to claim that Jews don't believe in God at all.  The "Muslim God," Allah, is seen as nothing but a cruel warmonger. Both of these are negative stereotypes that purposely disguise the fact that all three Abrahamic religions -- Judaism, Christianity, and Islam -- worship the same Creator of the universe.

This book serves as a primer for teaching us that true Islam is indeed a peaceful, reverent path that respects all life. Dyer, who is a British convert to Islam, was initially attracted to the faith through the poetry of Jalal'u'Din Rumi, a thirteenth century Persian mystic and scholar who taught: “Christian, Jew, Muslim, shaman, Zoroastrian, stone, ground, mountain, river, each has a secret way of being with the mystery, unique and not to be judged.” Rumi saw the evidence of God's presence everywhere.  This poetic universalism comes across in the book, teaching children to build bridges, not walls, among the faiths and peoples of the world.

Jalal'u'Din Rumi
Each lesson in The 99 Names has one or two Names (depending on context) in Arabic calligraphy, transliteration, English translation, and a quote from the Quran using the Name. This is followed by a simple but meaningful explanation of how that aspect of God is manifested in the world around us. Also included are teachings and stories from the Prophets and various Muslim sages, both male and female, and positive references to other religions.

Most non-Muslims (including me) would be hard put to name 99 different attributes of God -- which is what the Names really are. God is the Compassionate, The Merciful, the Sovereign, The Holy, the Source of Peace... and so many more. This, I believe, is a great gift that Islam has brought to the world at large, to remind us of how many different ways God manifests his/her Presence.  All too often, we limit God to a single attribute -- such as Love or Peace -- and forget how all-encompassing Omnipotence really is. Love is an attribute of God, yes. But God is so very much more.

A cat manifests God/Allah's
attribute of Watchfulness
I have gained a lot of new insights from contemplating the lessons that author Daniel Dyer sees in these Holy Names.  As author of a nature blog, I especially like the way the lessons connect the Names with nature, encouraging the reader to look for God's ways in all things. (The nature photos here are my own, not from the book. They are examples of how I see God/Allah's presence through the eye of my camera.)

 Once again,  Muslims and Jews are on a similar quest, to bring our urbanized children more in harmony with the wonders of God's world and our responsibility to care for it. This is where all people can come together in harmony, since we live on one earth. (I was also happy to read that Muhammad loved cats.  Readers of this blog know that I do, too!)

Each lesson has a "Signs of (Name)" section, with many examples taken from nature.  The cat, for example, is Watchful, pairs of geese are Faithful, a sunrise is Glorious.  The lessons also have a "Reflections and activities" section where children and parents can discuss/do things together. As author Dyer explains in his introduction,  "No answers are contained in this book. The important thing is that we learn to ask questions, reflect, research, and discuss with others to arrive at out own considered point of view."  Rather than being a book of dogmas, it is a map for exploration.  I highly recommend it.

(This essay was updated by the author on April 5, 2017)

Friday, October 28, 2016

Why Ivanka Trump's Judaism is no proof her father is not a bigot

Every time I bring up the topic of neo-Nazis and other antisemites who support Donald Trump, I get this answer from his supporters: "But he can't be antisemitic, his own daughter is Jewish."

Here's why that does not fly with me.

My own wife, Caryl, converted to Judaism. This did not, however, change her father's attitude towards Jews and other minorities.  No disrespect intended to the dead, but he took his nasty prejudices to the grave.  He accepted me (grudgingly) because I had married his daughter, but he saw me as an exception.  He was fond of saying,"It's not the individual, it's the race [his word] as a whole." And he continued to make antisemitic remarks and tell offensive jokes behind my back -- to the point that the rest of the family would get up and walk out.

Given this personal experience, I am very skeptical of how accepting The Donald really is of Jews outside his family circle.  Actions speak louder than words.

Trump has repeatedly failed to condemn the antisemitic Twitter trolls who harass Jews online in his name.  On the contrary, he has re-tweeted antisemitic memes from their websites. This, in turn, has encouraged some of his supporters to do likewise. Since Trump began his campaign for president, antisemitic tweets have soared on Twitter, according to a recent report by the Anti-Defamation League.

Many of these tweets have been directed at Jewish journalists who dared to write something negative about Trump or members of his family.  His wife, Melania, outrightly blamed the victim for this harassment, claiming that journalist Julia Ioffe had "provoked" the outbursts of antisemitic tweets (including death threats and recordings of Hitler played over the phone) for criticizing her. (Read more.)  When questioned about this, Trump claimed to know nothing about it, and had no message of condemnation for his fans (read more.)  This in spite of the fact that many of these cyber-bullies openly identify themselves as his supporters.

He also tried to blame the media for the furor over the meme he re-tweeted that showed Hillary Clinton on a background of money with "most corrupt candidate ever" inside a six-pointed star.  (Read more)  Trump claimed that this was a "sheriff's star" and not antisemitic.  But as it turned out, the meme was created on a white supremicist website.  You can jolly well bet that they were trying to evoke the "Zionist Occupied Government" (ZOG) supremacist  conspiracy theory that claims Jews run the banks, the government, the media, or whatever else they are angry at.

Did Trump really not know the origin of this graphic?  I doubt it, same as I doubt that Donald Trump, Jr. did not know that "Pepe the Frog" is a racist dog whistle, as he claimed on "Good Morning America".  Either the Trump family is totally out of touch with real life outside their gilded Tower, or they are lying through their teeth.  Either way, their followers are hearing the dog whistles loud and clear.

UPDATE: Trump's final 2-minute ad so clearly evoked these anti-Jewish conspiracy theories that it was openly condemned as antisemitic by numerous reviewers.  (Google "Trump ad antisemitic" for examples.)

What bothers me even more is that Jared Kushner, Ivanka's born-Jewish husband, does not seem to see anything wrong with all this.  In fact, he defended The Donald during the Star of David fiasco, evoking how his grandparents escaped from the Nazis, and citing how his grandfather had survived in the forest. However, members of Jared Kushner's own family were outraged that he would use their grandfather's Holocaust story to defend Trump, and went online to chastise him for it. (Read more on Politico.) 

Since the Hillary meme episode, the online attacks on Jews have only worsened. (Here are some recent examples.)  Alt-right trolls began putting (((triple parentheses))) around names of Jews as a signal to harass them.  This (((echo))) symbol (which used to mean "hugs" in normal net-speak), is now supposed to represent "Jewish influence" radiating out into the world.  In response, many Jews, along with non-Jewish supporters, began putting the echoes around their own names in defiance. Sort of like everyone putting on a yellow star.

I myself have been a victim of this harassment.  My response has been to block the trolls.  I've lost count of how many there have been, but the number has vastly increased as the election campaigning heated up.  (I do not re-tweet these images because that only spreads the hate.)  Needless to say, this is why I do not accept the argument that just because Ivanka Trump converted to Judaism, her father can't be antisemitic.  In my book, he certainly is, as long as he refuses to clearly and unequivocally denounce this antisemitic activity being done in his name.  As the saying goes, silence assents.

(This article was updated by the author on November 9, 2016)